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“Family Feud”

Message Date
November 12, 2025

  • Primary Text
    Philippians 4:2-3
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Family Feud

Life’s too short & eternity’s too long to hold a grudge.

We get annoyed when someone puts us on hold when we need assistance. We get perturbed when someone jumps in front of us because their friend is holding their place in line. And we get worried when we discover our romantic interest is still holding onto something from their ex.

But perhaps the worst thing that can ever be held onto is a grudge. Whether we’re holding it against someone or someone is holding it against us.

This week in our series Unshakable, the Apostle Paul pleads with two disciples – and us – to put in the work to resolve our problems and reconcile our relationships, handing us the tools to do so when we’re ready.

Homework

Get safe.
Ask God to help you forgive.
Take responsibility for your healing.
Ask someone to forgive you.
Equip yourself for peacemaking.
Read “Crucial Conversations”
Read “Living Beyond Offense” by Yana Jenay Connor

Worship Songs

Praise

Chris Brown / Steven Furtick / Tedashii Anderson / Sherwin Gardner / Cody Carnes / Chandler Moore / Brandon Lake / Joseph Patrick Martin Barrett

Promises

Aaron Moses / Dante Bowe / Joe L. Barnes / Keila Marin / Lemuel Marin / Phillip Carrington Gaines

Great Are You Lord

Jason Ingram / David Leonard / Leslie Jordan

Biblical References

Referenced Verses

Ephesians 4:32, Philippians 2:5, Ephesians 4:3, Romans 14:19, Luke 6:26, Romans 12:18, Philippians 4:1, Matthew 18:21-22, 1 Corinthians 11:23-26

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